This love quiz is a tool designed to give you insight to various
objectives that will guide you to attracting your ideal
partner and having a loving and lasting relationship.
Relax
with this process and realize you are giving yourself valuable
information about you, that you can utilize more growth in
achieving the relationship of your dreams.
2. Complete
the quiz using the form below (your total score it will be
automatically calculated at the bottom)
How to complete the online love quiz:
For every statement that applies true to
you give yourself one point. Be honest – this is for your
benefit – no one is judging you; each statement is either true or false – don't spend a lot of time
thinking about it.
(You can always take the quiz again after you have worked on some of
your objectives.)
Your total score will be calculated at the end of the
quiz.
Read the interpretation of your score at the end of the
quiz.
Relationship History
I have written a clear
account of what didn’t work in my parents’ marriage.
I have written a clear
account of what didn’t work in each of my prime past
relationships.
I have compared the two
above accounts and can see how my relationship patterns
developed.
I have a clear list of the
qualities and the negative traits of my past partners.
I recognize this is the type
of partners I tend to attract.
I recognize my past dating
and relationship behavior patterns.
I recognize how I have
developed my relationship patterns.
I have listed five to ten
ways my relationship patterns benefit me.
I have listed five to ten
ways my relationship patterns cost me.
I am clear about my past
relationship patterns and what hasn’t worked for me.
Letting Go of the Past
I understand my father did
the best he could.
I have forgiven my father.
I understand my mother did the best she could.
I have forgiven my mother.
I understand that each of my past relationship partners
did the best he/she could.
I have forgiven each of my past relationship partners.
I have released each of my past relationship partners to
their highest good and wellbeing.
I hold no grievances to the opposite gender.
I honor my brother/sisterhood and do not compete with my
same gender.
I have forgiven myself for my past dating and relationship
mistakes.
Needs
I acknowledge that I have
needs and the importance of getting them met.
I acknowledge that everyone has needs and it’s important
that they get their needs met.
I have a clear list of what my current needs are.
I know not any “one” person can meet all my needs,
especially someone I’m just getting to know.
I take full responsibility for getting my needs met in a
healthy manner.
I no longer need to be in a relationship in order to have
my needs be met.
I have caring and supportive friends that help meet some
of my needs.
I practice lots of good self-care whenever I feel needy.
I always take excellent care of myself.
I have a list of things I can do for myself that gives me
pleasure.
Safe Boundaries
I acknowledge that it is
vital for me to have safe boundaries for my self-care.
I know when to say “no” and I do, and I stick to it.
I have a written list of what my boundaries are.
I reassess and add to my boundaries as necessary.
I gently and effectively inform people about my
boundaries.
I make clear statements when setting my boundaries with
others.
I know how to deal with people who cross my boundaries.
I believe I am being supportive of others and myself when
I set boundaries.
I honor and respect others’ boundaries.
I am the most valuable person in my life.
Personal Care
I have excellent daily
hygiene including flossing.
I generally eat healthy and wise.
I maintain an average healthy weight for my height.
I have an exercise program that I do on a regular basis.
I am a non-smoker.
I am not addicted nor do I abuse alcohol or drugs.
I keep my clothing, bedding, and towels clean and fresh,
and I live in a clean environment.
I put forth effort to look and dress my best when going
out in public.
I set and keep regular appointments for proper grooming,
such as, hairstylist and manicurist.
I set and keep regular appointments with health care
professionals and
whenever I am suspicious or concerned about a health issue
I take care of it right away.
Emotional Vitality
I am self- loving.
I can often laugh at myself.
I laugh at the silly things in life.
I enjoy spending some time alone.
I live in a peaceful and healthy environment.
I am truly happy and living a fulfilled life.
I have forgiven myself for any past mistakes.
I know what my good traits and characteristics are and I
honor them.
I take responsibility for my choices and do not blame
others.
I acknowledge all of my accomplishments with a sense of
pride.
Inner Spirituality and Faith
I am connected to some form
of Higher Power.
I
acknowledge my spiritual roots and the growth of where I
am today.
I take quiet
time for inner spiritual growth.
I can
discern intuition from other thoughts and feelings.
I honor and
trust my intuition above all else.
I am true to
myself in my faith and spirituality.
I respect
and do not try to change others’ faith or spiritual
beliefs.
I trust that
my greater good and growth are always evolving in my life.
I trust when
the time is right my ideal partner and I will enter each
other’s life.
I trust that
as long as I am taking growth steps, a good relationship
is inevitable.
Life Quest
I have a vision of how I want
my life to be.
I know how I best contribute to others.
I am in the process of creating and doing my life passion.
I know my life purpose and the legacy I want to leave
behind.
I do what creates my heart and soul to sing.
I have a vision of how I want to live and where.
I live a well-balanced life.
I make goals and stick to them until they are
accomplished.
I continue to learn through a variety of modalities.
I surround myself with supportive people who believe in
me.
Financial Stability
I live within my means.
I am not addicted to or abuse gambling.
I pay my bills on time and without having late charge
fees.
I keep my checkbook and accounts updated and in order.
I live debt free or have a plan in place to achieve it.
I do not let my emotions make my financial decisions.
I have a savings plan in place for my future and
contribute to it regularly.
I regularly contribute to a charity or worthy cause.
I have money for fun, entertainment, hobbies and travel.
I keep a positive vision and vibration for my financial
stability now and for my future.
Social Life
I choose to participate in activities that I enjoy and
that give me pleasure.
I choose some activities because they will stretch me in a
new direction.
I do not choose activities for the sole purpose of finding
a partner.
I put my best foot forward and stay true to myself.
I smile often, make eye contact, walk and stand with
confidence.
I have loving and supportive friends that I enjoy having
fun with.
I keep myself open to meeting new people wherever I go.
I do volunteer work to help others in need and my
community.
I never use money, power or sexuality as a way to attract
partners.
I am respectful and kind to everyone.
Dating Skills
I am a women and I give men
the space to pursue and court me.
I am a man and I feel comfortable initiating the first
steps in dating.
I get to know a person slowly over time.
I continue my full life and stay connected to my
supportive friends while I am dating.
I keep my boundaries at all times, and can comfortably
communicate this to my date.
I am clear on how I do and don’t want to be treated and
communicate this to my date.
I have fun and enjoy the dating process.
I am no longer willing to continue to date someone that is
not an appropriate potential partner.
I avoid sexual foreplay early in the dating process.
I wait until I am in a committed relationship to have sex.
I am true to myself at all times in the dating process and
openly express my needs.
Ideal Partner
I have dropped
all expectations of another that I don’t expect of myself.
I have a list of 10 absolute qualities that I must have in
a partner.
I am not willing to negotiate on the qualities most
important to me.
I have a list of 10 deal-breakers that I cannot tolerate
from a partner.
I see people for who they are and not who I want them to
be.
I attract kind people, who are good for me.
I am open to dating a person who is different than my
typical “type.”
I am clear about attracting an available partner that is
ready for a relationship.
I am clear about attracting a compatible partner, so both
of our needs are meet.
I am clear about attracting a partner who would like to
grow with me in a relationship.
Relationship Ready Skills
I am emotionally
and physically available and ready for a relationship.
I have listed what is important to me living day-to-day in
a relationship with a partner.
I am open and willing to value my partners needs and
request.
I have a list of what I need from my partner in order to
thrive in a relationship.
I clearly know what I cannot live without in a
relationship.
I desire and I am ready to be in a process of growth with
a partner.
I am clear on what the worst thing(s) a partner could do
to me in a relationship.
I am continually growing and improving my communication
and relationship skills.
I am no longer willing to stay in a relationship if I am
devalued or disrespected.
I realize that love does not happen instantly and true
love grows deeper over time.
Total Score
Interpreting Your
Love Quiz Score
The closer you score is to 131 points, the more likely you are
to attracting your ideal partner and building a lasting and
loving relationship. Think of your unmarked quiz statements as
action steps that you can work through in your Journey to Love
Workbook. After you have completed your Workbook see how many
more statements you can mark with a firm “true.”
90 to 131 Points
Chances are very good that you have the ability to easily
attract your ideal partner. In fact, you may already be in a
loving relationship and desire to build your relationship
skills. You will get even clearer with your objectives after
completing the Journey to Love Workbook.
50 to 89 Points
Some of the time you may be feeling good about the opposite
sex and dating. Other times you may feel something is still
holding you back from having the relationship of your dreams.
It is possible you still believe in love at first sight and
great chemistry is the main things that make a good
relationship. You may not yet be clear on your own safe
boundaries and exactly what you want from a partner and a
relationship. By completing the Journey to Love Workbook and
consider scheduling Relationship Skill Building sessions will
assist guiding you to your ideal partner and the relationship
you desire.
0 to 49 Points
You may be feeling very frustrated with dating and your
experiences with relationships. Do not despair -- right now
get busy with the Journey to Love Workbook and schedule your
Relationship Skill Building sessions to bring you closer to
your dreams.
What to do next...
Don't despair if
you didn't score too well. You can quickly start working on
improving your chances for a great relationship. A good place
to begin is the Journey To
Love Workbook.
After you complete the
Journey to Love Workbook
complete your quiz again. See how far you have grown in attracting your
ideal partner and how you have become more qualified in
creating a lasting and loving successful relationship.
